more wedding fun

Ok so nwo planning a wedding.. so we do things a lot backwards.. most peopel do it BEFORE they are married for 14 years and ahve 3 kids... laffin yeah so i am doign it now and it is much different than i had thought.. since there are lots of things that i dont ahve to do since i am alreadymarried like registering for gifts, adn planning showers.... we arent have attendants except my children so taht is another hting i didnt have to worry about. Yesterday my sweet husband took me to meet the cake lady adn we tasted cakes and picke dout our flavor and what we wanted it to look like! I can wait.. adn WOW cakes can be expensive... but hey at least i dont have to stress and make it myself... taht wouldnt be fun.. with all i have to do... i have left some of the planning up to Jaum like getting a photographer, food and all that... ig ot my invites in the other day and am addressing them gotta print out directions and hotel info and stick that in there then mail them out and hope someone wants to come and share our day.... and if nto we will have a great time wiht ourselves.... I knwo thatmy grandma and cousin are comgni for sure adn so are my mom and dad as soon as i buy their tickets.... and i am sure hopign that my baby sister can find themoola to get here too! so we ownt be alone!! smiles.... so there is my update!